When my
oldest was born four and a half years ago, it was assumed I would breastfeed. I
started out wonderfully, but due to circumstances, lack of knowledge,
determination and support (which I would have had if I voiced my opinion), I
slowed breastfeeding at 4 weeks, weaned by 6weeks. I told myself "At least
he got those 4-6 weeks", "I did what I could" and "he's
being fed, that's all that matters!" Which every single word is
true. When circumstances changed yet again at 8 weeks, I tried to gain my
supply back and was not successful. I also was not educated and motivated. But
I was sad, and didn't realize how sad until I became pregnant with my second
son.
In the 4
years between my children, I learned a great many things, including,
breastfeeding facts, myths and other parenting methods.
By the
time my second son was born, I knew I was going to breastfeed. I was going to
baby wear, co-sleep, and let baby lead the weaning process; and so much more. I
set mini goals for myself. Six weeks, ten weeks (when I returned to work), three
months, six months, ten months and twelve months. The ultimate goal would be
between twelve to twenty-four months old when he self-weaned.
When he
was born, it went perfect. He latched on moments after birth and nursed for
almost two hours. Then he slept for four and one-half hours and refused to wake
up! Once he woke up, he nursed again for almost two hours. Ever since then, he
is a breastfeeding champ. Now I am having a hard time ever imagining not
breastfeeding him.
At the
time of these pictures he was five months old. I am ecstatic to say at almost eight
months, we are still breastfeeding. It's not like I dreamed and hoped, but so
much more than I feared in a worst case scenario.
Circumstances
have again made it difficult to make my milk the only milk he gets. I am very
blessed to say he also receives the milk of two wonderful ladies who have
helped keep him on donor milk since he was three and one-half months
old. This is more than I dreamed of. I plan to savor every moment I have.
It's an amazing bond that I cannot explain.
This is
a favorite quote of mine from probably one of the best resources for
breastfeeding I have stumbled across.
"I
thought I'd become a mother the day my baby was born. It isn't so. Mothers join
the ranks slowly, gradually, one caress, one diaper, one feeding at a time. And
then one day we look down and there they are: the hands of a mother, gently
with enormous strength doing the most important work on earth." - The
Womanly Art of Breastfeeding.
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